How often we dread the turning of the clock as the years tick by and we reach a certain milestone. Denise Mclaughlan shares how she celebrated her coming of age of three score years and ten as a single person! (This was 5 years ago)

In an effort to accept and make sense of this ageing matter, I had this sudden inspiration to embrace the fact that I was turning 70 in that month of May... so, rather than to fear it or make it go away I decided to embrace it...and that after several years of not easily admitting to my 60-plus status!

The fact is that I feel so much younger.... healthy and with more energy and exuberance than a lot of younger people. I realised that there is no getting away from the years... thus why not go big? Hence the week-long festivities, A 7-day celebration for the 7 decades.

I set about it by creating a Powerpoint invitation of several slides in which I set out the plans I had for doing pleasurable activities every day for a week...with whatever friends cared to join in.

I took great pleasure in designing the page and writing the rhyme/verse playing with the words starting with S as in the heading SASSY SENSUOUS AND A SHARP SEVENTY which is how I tend to see myself... never mind the odd grey hair, the slight stiffness when getting up ; at least I had kept up with the modern world of technology and had refrained from getting narrow in outlook!

On the following slides I set out plans like....a morning tea party at my house (for the older folk who are not working ) ... a Pyjamas and Popcorn movie evening for my church cell group on the one evening...a movie and coffee outing with three other friends – who share my interest in movies ( and did we enjoy "Far from the Madding Crowd"!

There was also the Sunday with my little family at home with cake and champagne... and the joy of having two of my three grandchildren with me!   However the piece de resistance was a good old-fashioned Soiree (which for those who don't know) is an elegant get-together at a home with live music and a dinner. This was in the end held at a very close friend's house and as a gift she provided her lovely dining-room, most of the dinner and the table decorations which had a vintage theme...and her cook who did the delicious meal. To fit in with the soiree theme, I hired a professional saxophone/clarinet/flute player to do the honours. We were 12 people and I must say they did me proud... a real highlight of my festivities!

On my actual birthday and after the six days of enjoyment, seven friends and I went for a very fine breakfast at Nitida Wine farm near Durbanville where I simply loved the view of a dam , the vineyards in their autumn colours , the fynbos and the Boland mountains in the distance.

This was the most blessed and fun-filled birthday and I actually enjoyed reaching this milestone of birthdays.... here is an excerpt from the speech I made at the dinner on the night of the soiree. 

Seventy years of a good life

..........And so now I am seventy and rather than fear old age I shall embrace the years to come. I will work on my bucket list and I will live life to the full with the help of my Lord in heaven. I am grateful for the blessing of good health and a zest for living … so watch this space!!